Confessional Interview
To look at me and Abi, laughing and chatting, anyone would think we were mother and daughter, however you would be mistaken. Despite my closeness to this bright and beautiful young woman, we are not related. Our relationship only began 5 years ago through the death of my 26-year-old-son Russell. I lost my son but have gained a daughter.
Russell had the most wonderful sense of humour, his smile could light up a room. Now his future had been taken and a giant hole had been left in all our lives.
‘The whole experience for me has been a pleasant one, I never had any major worries about having a transplant, I was just excited to get my life back! I always wanted to thank my donors family and to be as close as I am with them now is amazing! I'm so glad that I have Pauline and her family in my life. I just wish it was under better circumstances. Organ donation is so important. Not enough people no about it and the amazing transformation it can have on someone's life. I've been shocked myself how much it helps when my friends have received there transplants. I think anyone considering signing up for organ donation should go for it as it's an amazing thing to do and can dramatically change someone’s life.’
Every year 1,000 people die waiting for a transplant. However, only 4% of people regularly give blood, and only 31% of us have joined the Organ Donor Register.
Registering to become a donor is a personal decision. You can join at any age, but until you are 18 (16 in Scotland) you need consent from a guardian.
Roughly 18 people die each day waiting for transplants.
visit organdonation.nhs.uk for more information
By Pauline Holmes
As told to Georgia Spears




